Being Taxed For Having All-Natural Hair
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One of my friends also pointed out that I’m too nice to black men. My take on that is, all of God’s creations are worthy of love and respect. Black men are men and as men should know pure, honest, love. How sad that anyone would want to deny us love based solely on the color of our skin (it’s twice as sad when it’s us). Black men are also told by family, friends, co-workers and clergy that they should think about expanding their dating options because black women just don’t know how to act.
When it comes to the UK interracial dating scene, most people believe men from the UK prefer dating black women than they do white. This doesn’t mean that they don’t find white women attractive or that they don’t hit on them. It’s just that, in comparison to America, apparently black women are the most sought after. I remember when me and my friends visited the UK, it always seemed like the white British men were more interested in us African American girls than they were with my white friends. Well, who wouldn’t want us, we are pretty hot. But hotness aside, we got picked first wherever we went. For some reason, I thought our experience was gonna be like what we are used to at home; white girls being the center of attraction! SHOCK!
Yes… the quest for good hair isn’t limited to only white women black men dating sites. Men too are also profiled in this film… from Rock’s own admission to going through his own Jheri Curl stage to a candid interview with the Rev. Al Sharpton about how his distinct “do” came to be… inspired by another male proponent of creamy crack relaxer, James Brown.
I have more than one obligatory white, Asian or Hispanic friend. American women, in general, all seem to have the same complaint about their men. The jokers are triflin! Am I the only person on this planet to have known the guilty pleasure of the late night show “Cheater’s”? Have you noticed there’s a large number of white folk on that program; cussing and fussing about who’s cheating on whom? And here’s a really sad eye opener. Every (EVERY) black woman I know who is married to or dating a white man is pulling her hair out trying to understand why they can’t stay faithful. I guess brotha’s thought they had the patent on that one. Or they forgot patent’s run out and their game has been reproduced.
There are sites for dating that everyone can use. There are dating websites that are specific to black women, white individuals, those interested in interracial relationships, young persons, older persons, etc. Find the right dating site for you, create your account, and then you can start meeting people. While creating your account, you will be asked questions about yourself. Usually these questions ask for information concerning height, weight, age, status, occupation,interest and religion. Individual information such as your address, telephone number, or your place of employment shouldn’t be in a profile request.
No, seriously, think about it. Everybody knows famous white women black men dating site only want to date beautiful blondes, right? (All men want to date beautiful blondes, for that matter). Heck, entire movies have been made about how black women have to compete with white women for the best white women black men dating site.
Chelsea Handler is just flat out funny, not just “funny for a girl,” but it bears noting that she’s the first woman to have a late night show since Joan Rivers–who did it back in 19861. It’s also important to note that Chelsea Handler’s Chelsea Lately nabs more coveted 18-35 viewers than Leno, Letterman1, Jimmy Kimmel, Craig Ferguson or Carson Daly2. Seems it’s ladies night every night on the E! channel.
When he follows up for date number 2 play hard to get. Make him wait at least one week before you see him again. This will give you all the control you need. More importantly you will get the respect that white woman looking for black men deserve!